Monday, June 18, 2007
How Far Are You Willing To Go With Me? (Part 1)
Was really surprised Rebecca bought me a bowl of ah boling when I kept insisting I didn't want anything. Guess she die die also want me to try.
I came across this girl, Serene, in friendster. She wrote the following:
as time passes by, the wants and needs of one will change - financial needs,emotional needs,lifestyle needs,bascially everything that will eventually lead them to the wants and needs they desire. One will defintely demand more and more as they grow. Some may realise what they really want in a man/woman that they would love to walk down the aisle with is total opposite with the one they're with now,some may realise that "oh, this is actually the lifestyle that i'm longing for ",some may realise that "what am i doing?wasting my life because of a particular someone or something??" Well...i've realise many things along this path of life that i've choosen...some good things...some not very good things...and some really bad things...All these help me realise the love of God has for me and everyone else. To me love is a powerful feeling/action that one can portray. Love gives u the happiest feeling and so does it gives u the most excruciating pain and hurt u'll never want to go thru. I want to be a person filled with love. I'll walk thru the path of love with my defender in heaven +
+ Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy and often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best. Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
And Stan wrote the following:
You ever wonder if there is just one person out there for everyone....i mean how are u suppose to know who that person is? or if you've missed that person? or you can't see that person? or simply given up on that person? what if you never get another chance? Someone should write a damn book or something about this whole find your soulmate or the one person out there that's right for you, i mean is there really just one?? could there be ten? a hundred? . I mean most of us have had more than one relationship...does that mean all the other ones didnt count when you find the one? or what if they all felt like the one? or maybe you just felt something else and mistakened it for that feeling? I mean every single move or decision you make in your life is fate and it alters your future and the decisions you will make after, what if you were suppose to do something you didnt, or not suppose to do something you did, you know when people say something just feels right? what is the definition of that? what if feeling right varies for everyone and you just say it feels right cause you think it does, but really it doesn't. maybe love is just overrated and so blown up by the media and society as a whole that we tend to overlook the little things that make us happy. Simplicity seems to be the new trend in everything... from relationships, to daily activities, way of thinking, life in general i presume. But than there is just this obsession with keeping oneself happy, must we always be happy? are we not allowed to feel unhappy sometimes? is it a crime? i think a life where u believe that EVERYDAY is just pure bliss and joy and ur just happy for the sake of it, is just bs, cuz honestly it's impossible. Anyways NO i'm no bitter...
This post is written in an attempt to define love and how to determine the Right One, in view of the new Channel 8 show tomorrow. One guy, with 3 girls. Lucky bastard. But I'm too tired to write. Hope to do so soon.
Night bitches.